P-Momma recently had some drama on her blog. A man by the name of Tom started a blog called "No Possum Zone", which is now defunct. Well, as you may be able to tell by the name, the blog was created for the soul purpose of criticizing P-Momma's actions and her family. In a comment, Nancy said:
...It is God who told us in prayer to pick her when we searched for an atheist woman to discuss for parenting Bible studies.
Considering the thought process of most fundagelicals, I figured that meant they had stumbled across the blog and decided to show the love. Their version of it, anyway.
Well, that turned out not to be the case. It turns out that someone P-Momma had online contact with a few years ago had kept track of her, and apparently given information to Tom and Nancy. When they copy/pasted some text from a post that she'd done back in 2001 she figured out who it was. Only about a dozen people knew how to access the website, and it had been so long ago that P-Momma had forgotten about it.
Well, apparently "God" is slang for a relative with an agenda, because it was Tom's sister-in-law who was feeding them the information and who lead them to P-Momma's blog in the first place. Things started to click into place, and there was an email exchange between P-Momma and Tom. P-Momma was understandably upset that Tom would copy what she'd wrote for her children to read and put it on his blog. Not because it was evidence of Tom's assertion (that P-Momma slept with her ex-husband to keep him with her), but because it was intensely personal and he had no business doing so. Well, he agreed, but there could have been a reason behind it.
There are some parallels between Tom and P-Momma's ex-husband. Tom and Nancy had sex before they were married, and Tom is an abusive husband. How do I know this? If you went to the link, you'll find that P-Momma did a post on that information, because at the end of the email exchange Tom said:
"I got forgiving blessing from God about those things. Share them and you'll have egg on your face cause I am about truth."
Well, it didn't appear that Tom was "about truth" with his next blog post.
Possummomma is a liar. She lies. She barganed that when I took down the entry of her letter to the possum kids she would take down the past about us. She lied and made a entry on blog about us after I did what she wanted. If she ever wanted to find out how we found her blog she could ask us about it, we would tell her Shannon led us to her atheist rant you call a blog so what. So what where we saw it? Me and Nancy courted for two years until we got married so we were ready to marry when we had sexual relationships. Our child was not born three months after we had a wedding he was born four months after and was a month early. We are sinners who arnt the best perfect people that God knows our sins that we can repent for our soul. I did not lie at my wedding to say that I would love my wife for ever to "save face" when possum mom did.
Several people pointed out the incongruity of his actions (not to mention that we'd repeatedly pointed out his hypocrisy), but then in the comments he wrote something that really got our attention.
I disciplin my wife and children if it when it needs doing like our Bible says. Beating from domestic violence is not the same because I know how to use it right some poeple dont use it right. My daddy did it to my mom my sons will do it in their houses but it means wives or girls can say that it was to rough and a husband living in God will stop before carring it to far. Dont talk about it like you know how we use it.
You can imagine the buzz that caused. Especially since he said "wife and children". If he'd only said children, it would have been more vague, but including Nancy in his comment raised some flags.
I saw it, but couldn't believe it. Tom had given enough evidence to have him investigated. I spent the weekend thinking it over, and even gave the link to my wife so she could see his comment and I could get her reaction. She agreed with me, and I sent an email to P-Momma.
I've been thinking over the weekend, and approached the subject with my wife. Unless Nancy wants to press charges, there's nothing the authorities can do about Tom's assaults. However, if he's beating his children (which the comment on his blog insinuates) then they can be protected. Perhaps doing so will wake Nancy up, but even if not it will protect their kids.
She agreed, and got enough information to contact the authorities. What I didn't know about were the emails that she'd exchanged with Tom and Nancy that no one else saw.
Apparently, Tom and Nancy not only did physical punishment with their children, but also used fasting as a punishment. For the spankings, "little crimes get the hand" and "bigger problems get a spoon or belt." The real ignorance though is the fasting. "It's good for the body...we never do it unless a child is over three years." What the hell did they read to come up with "four and above" as a good age to start using fasting as a punishment? A quick search of their favorite book didn't show that.
P-Momma ended up making the difficult decision, and got in touch with NCCPS. Well, Nancy was none to happy with that.
Possummomma is a liar. She twists the way we disciplining are children to sick levels enough to call children and family services to have us be questioned. I am a God Fearing Christian so I have names for you that I cant use ever. So you know they left with no actions to Thomas so you lose. When they do the next check-up they still don't find any abuses just following Bible based parenting so you lose. We delete our posts now leave us alone with no lies by your serpents tongue. I am pregnat Your cause of my stress is appawling.
[Emphasis mine]
Notice what I emphasized? CPS didn't find anything, but they're coming back. If they didn't find anything, why would they come back?
Anyway, if you look through Tom and Nancy's comments, they keep bringing up the "she's pregnant" card everytime they were loosing an argument, which was everytime they sat down at the keyboard. Of course, considering lupus lasts a helluva lot longer than 9 months, and they weren't giving P-Momma any slack because of it, I didn't really give a damn that Nancy has a bun in the oven... for the seventh time.
In that comment to Tom, I gave a brief explanation of unintended consequences. He started a blog specifically to harass someone, and now his household is under investigation by CPS. I'm sure he and Nancy didn't see that coming (perhaps they should have prayed harder?), but I don't feel especially proud of what was done.
I sincerely hope there is nothing wrong, and Tom and Nancy were just blowing off steam to us "godless". Otherwise, their children may be taken away from them. On the one hand, it could save their children from an uneducated, indoctrinated, and ignorant upbringing. On the other hand, those children would be torn from a mother and father they've known all their lives. I'm not proud of being one of the people who indirectly brought this about, but I am proud of P-Momma for doing the right thing.
There was one commenter who said we should have minded our own business. However, that commenter apparently didn't read the other comments from people who actually experienced what Tom and Nancy's children may be going through. Jabba may be a proponent of apathy, but I consider him a supporter of cowardice.

